Anger Inventory

Everyone gets angry. Getting to know what triggers your anger and how you react can help you manage it in a positive way. It may help you to write down these answers and save them for future reference.

What do you do when you get angry?

  • clench your jaw
  • get a stomach ache
  • raise your voice
  • want to hurt someone
  • refuse to speak
  • want to get away
  • become verbally or physically abusive
  • sweat or turn red
  • get sarcastic
  • never get angry

How do you feel when you get angry?

  • Guilty
  • Anxious
  • Depressed
  • Ashamed
  • Withdrawn
  • Don't feel it until later

What is your anger like? Does it...

  • Last too long?
  • Flare up frequently?
  • Express itself even when you try to suppress it?
  • Go away quickly?

What is the outcome of your anger? Does it...

  • Interfere with your job or relationships?
  • Contribute to physical problems?
  • Lead to accidents?
  • Get you into legal problems?

What situations make you especially angry?

Are there people you have trouble dealing with when you're angry?